Believe In Yourself

Sometimes we're in such a situation that we aren't sure if we'll be able to fix the problem or even find a solution without any messy outcomes. We keep asking ourselves that is it okay to do this? Is it okay to let go of what has happened? Is it okay to move on from certain things that aren't appealing to us anymore? We keep over analysing our decisions and question ourselves because the lack of faith in ourselves lingers around and it makes it difficult to even make a decision so we seek for help in our friends and close ones. But we're still not satisfied with their feedback and sometimes they end up giving us the same advise which we first thought of but were hesitant enough to imply it.

Why the self doubt? Why the lack of confidence? You are a strong, independent person and you are capable enough to decide for yourself and make your own decisions. So why do you keep questioning yourself? It's totally fine to be imperfect because no one was born perfect, we will make mistakes no matter how hard we try to be cautious about our decisions. Go with your gut feeling because that will always save you from awkward situations (mostly always) and it's okay to be wrong. You do not have to feel low because your decision was wrong but let me specify that I do not speak in terms of relationships. This is just to make you feel better about your own self.

So yeah we can be reckless at times, we can be blunt with our words but please do not be afraid to speak your mind. You wish to do something that you feel, will benefit you in some way. You are simply unique and you are born to do things in your own way. Believe in yourself no matter what because that's the only thing which will not only make you feel confident enough but will encourage you to do better things.

In hard times I want you to know that please do not lose faith in yourself because you are your only friend who has the courage to stay alive and get through it. Having that belief that Yes you are capable enough to achieve what you have planned or worked hard for is simply a winner in its own way. Staying positive in every situation also plays a a major role in shaping your life so why not wake up with positive mind and spread positive vibes round you? 

You are not a failure in any way, just because one bad decision had a disastrous outcome that doesn't mean that you can't make the right choice. Yes of course people will be around to guide you but ultimately the decision will be yours itself, you get to choose for yourself. So why not believe your inner feelings? I'm sure that it wouldn't hurt to try?

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