Somedays Are Bearable & Somedays Are Not
We all have had our own share of tension headaches, stress headaches and even migraines. But has anyone suffered or is suffering from depression headaches? Yes, I am suffering from depression headaches, where my mind is numb at times and sometimes the pain is simply unbearable. I have to sleep for that whole day even though I have ton of other work to finish but when there's no energy left I don't have a choice.
I am not lazy if that's what you are thinking, I can't help myself and I can't even ask for help. I can't complain about what's happening to me because in today's world everyone expects you to be tough enough to deal with it. I have often heard my Mom telling me that I act weak and I'm simply just pretending to have headaches. I can't keep popping painkillers because it has its own side effects.
I am done explaining to people that I am really tired and really don't have the energy to have a conversation but in return they act like I am just faking it and I should be strong because this is life. Why are we always told to be strong and figure things out? Why can't we stop labelling people? For once why can't we empathise with people who are already going through a lot in their lives? What happened to "Be kind to one another"? where did all the kindness ago?
In a world where everything is so uncertain, where there is no guaranteed "Tomorrow" can we at least try to be nice to one another? All I am asking you is to be nice and acknowledge that the person is trying to tell you something, stop belittling them. It's not in their control at all, they did not choose the suffering and we are trying our very best to fix things for ourselves. Stop judging us for not being upto your expectations and let us have our own individual thoughts, aims, dreams. It does not have to be about you all the damn time so please stop being so offended when people like me tell you that I am tired and can't answer your phone.
You know? I'd do anything to fix my current situation, to fix all this pain and suffering. Why does it have to be so hard all the time? We all are trying to figure out our own lives but that does not mean people have the right to say anything in the name of "Helping". There is no switch or a button which shuts off all the misery, your one statement can cause sleepless nights and never ending trauma. Please choose your words wisely and contribute in making this world a better place for everyone of us.
I am not lazy if that's what you are thinking, I can't help myself and I can't even ask for help. I can't complain about what's happening to me because in today's world everyone expects you to be tough enough to deal with it. I have often heard my Mom telling me that I act weak and I'm simply just pretending to have headaches. I can't keep popping painkillers because it has its own side effects.
I am done explaining to people that I am really tired and really don't have the energy to have a conversation but in return they act like I am just faking it and I should be strong because this is life. Why are we always told to be strong and figure things out? Why can't we stop labelling people? For once why can't we empathise with people who are already going through a lot in their lives? What happened to "Be kind to one another"? where did all the kindness ago?
In a world where everything is so uncertain, where there is no guaranteed "Tomorrow" can we at least try to be nice to one another? All I am asking you is to be nice and acknowledge that the person is trying to tell you something, stop belittling them. It's not in their control at all, they did not choose the suffering and we are trying our very best to fix things for ourselves. Stop judging us for not being upto your expectations and let us have our own individual thoughts, aims, dreams. It does not have to be about you all the damn time so please stop being so offended when people like me tell you that I am tired and can't answer your phone.
You know? I'd do anything to fix my current situation, to fix all this pain and suffering. Why does it have to be so hard all the time? We all are trying to figure out our own lives but that does not mean people have the right to say anything in the name of "Helping". There is no switch or a button which shuts off all the misery, your one statement can cause sleepless nights and never ending trauma. Please choose your words wisely and contribute in making this world a better place for everyone of us.
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