An Open Letter To The Future You

Dear You,

Here I am writing a letter to you because today I feel that I need to do this in order to make you aware of the things you have done and the things you are doing. This is for you to know that the mess you made in your past and the mess you are about to make because you do not have a choice at the moment, please do not repeat the things you did which landed you in a huge mess that literally drove you insane for days, weeks and months.

You will not trust people who make promises just to win your heart in order to make you happy for a short period of time. The last time you trusted a person like this made you feel so vulnerable that you almost gave up on everything else. These people only know how to give false promises but will never keep them because they themselves do not know what the heck they are doing. They are not capable of healing you and if they say that they can heal you then let me tell you that it's just a Bullshit statement because if they were capable of healing you then they would have healed themselves first. Everyone is so messed up that they really don't know what they are doing so they think that helping someone in their crisis is going to make everything go away. It doesn't go away just like that!

You will not give up on yourself every now and then just because somebody screwed you up for nothing. It's not your fault that things didn't turn out as you planned or you wished for it. Your short comings should never be the reason for your weakness, your situations should never make you feel vulnerable enough to make you feel like it's the end of everything because you are stronger than you think and none of this should break your spirit to live again like you used to, just like before. Stand your ground with your head high up and live upto your moral values.

Never be afraid to speak your mind because people are afraid of honesty so they often take your honesty as rudeness. Let them think what they want to because you can never change the way a person feels or thinks. You can not change a person and that's a lie when a person tells you that you have changed them. No! It's not you, it's the situation that changed them. So do not be afraid to speak up even when you feel that your voice is shivering because if you stay quiet then you are the one who pays the price in some or the other way.

Do not expect anything from anyone because that's when you're doing it wrong. People don't get it, expecting things in return is indeed a human nature but know your worth and your efforts. If it's not worth it then stop pushing yourself to such extents where you lose your individuality! You're incredibly amazing and capable of doing incredible things. Don't let anything harm your peace because that's the most important thing to live a stress free life.

Embrace yourself and your flaws, don't hide them because that's what makes you beautiful and worthy. Your inner beauty is more powerful than your words, flaunt it, rant about it and more importantly do not forget to love yourself.

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