Someday We'll Get There

We are all trying our best to fit into these norms laid by the society just to feel accepted in some way or the other. We are so carried away by trying to make everything work in our favor and we just forget to live for ourselves. We forget that we need some time for ourselves, to breathe, to feel, to love and more importantly to just be ourselves.

We are constantly living with this fear of not being good enough to people around us, not being able to live up to their expectations. Somewhere deep down we feel that sense of emptiness due to this, we always pretend to be someone who is totally different from the real us just because we want to feel loved and accepted.

There are times when we are the real us and we are really happy to be the way we are. So what changes this? Why can't we just be the one who we really are? Is pretending really necessary? Is it really worth your time? Is it going to do you any good in the long run?

I'll tell you what, in the long run this won't work because someday you will be tired of pretending and you will struggle to be your true self. So why not live with your true identity and just be true to yourself? This way you don't have to feel guilty about lying about your true identity, you don't have to feel ashamed of yourself.

I have been observing certain things myself, I have seen a few people who enjoy their own company and are truly happy with themselves. Someday we'll be like them, someday we'll all realize that happiness comes from within and not from people or the things around us and happiness certainly doesn't come from the materialistic things that attracts us.

I know that it's really easy for me to say all this because living with anxiety and fear is the most toughest things. I have never felt the need to be someone I am not because I personally can not handle the guilt of being someone else. I am not asking you to do it right now but someday you may realize and feel the need to just be yourself. Someday we'll get there and I'll be waiting for you at the end of this road.

It's not going to be easy but it's not difficult too, you just need to trust yourself, believe in yourself because in the end it's going to be everything you ever wanted it to be. It will all fall in its place and will be just right there where it really needs to be. You made it this far, kid!

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