Priorities? What for?

There is this one thing in my head that I just can't seem to understand and that is why do we need to set priorities? Isn't everything important to us? I believe it is because everything is so interrelated that even if we ignore one thing the next thing will be affected automatically. We might not notice this right now but slowly as we move ahead with other things we realize the mess we made. I do not speak for everyone because everyone has their own opinion and a different point of view on everything and neither I will judge anyone irrespective of what any of you think of me.

I am just a regular woman who has tons of questions and one heck of a messed up life and is looking for some answers so maybe some of you might help me out on this one. I do not know how many of you will actually take their time and read it but I'm sure some of you will definitely help me out because honestly a few things are relatable so there should be some answers to it.
So back to the question, what are priorities for? to remind yourself that something or someone is extremely important to you and without them your life is incomplete or nothing will go right if you don't have something important?

Each and everyone is as important as the work in the office, at home, in school or college, people are important! for God's sake don't ignore or be so forgetful that you don't realize that you are missing out on the amazing stuff that people have to offer either by their presence or just by making sure they are around you. But we forget this part that there are a few people who are way too important than anything else and we are too blind to even see the rest of the things. Why? Why are we so ignorant?

We keep our hopes high for the wrong people, we expect from the wrong people and we fall in love with the wrong person and in the end all we do is regret because we ignored the ones who were there for us all this while, who never left when you needed someone to hold you down in your worst times. People like these do not expect anything in return because they love you without any conditions and all we ever gave these people was no attention, no affection, ignored them when they needed us but they still smiled back and stayed with you.

Treat everyone right, equally with love and care because the world needs to be more kinder towards one another, there shouldn't be any place for any hate because all we ever need is love and kindness. So why not spread it around like confetti? Everyday should be filled with love and kindness and in this way there would be less heartbreaks and less pain. If only everyone understood this then the world would have been a better place by now.

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  1. Neha SinghSeptember 28, 2018 at 10:10 AM

    If only people realised how much of an impact a small act of kindness makes, atleast we would have each other to support us throughout the bad times

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