Express Yourself

There is this one thing in my head that I just can't seem to understand and that is why do we need to set priorities? Isn't everything important to us? I believe it is because everything is so interrelated that even if we ignore one thing the next thing will be affected automatically. We might not notice this right now but slowly as we move ahead with other things we realize the mess we made. I do not speak for everyone because everyone has their own opinion and a different point of view on everything and neither I will judge anyone irrespective of what any of you think of me. I am just a regular woman who has tons of questions and one heck of a messed up life and is looking for some answers so maybe some of you might help me out on this one. I do not know how many of you will actually take their time and read it but I'm sure some of you will definitely help me out because honestly a few things are relatable so there should be some answers to it. So back to the question...

It's been a few months now since I'm all clean, clean from the mess I was in when you were around and I'm glad that you aren't here anymore because I have learnt to live my life all over again. You were the person who was once my everything, my home which made me feel like I belong there and I never wanted to leave. Things were going smoothly and the first few months were so blissful that I felt like you were really the one for me so I started dreaming of spending the rest of my life with you. You were the perfect guy a girl could ever ask and I was afraid that I might lose you because I was madly in love with you that made me so blind that I couldn't see any of your flaws and that was my biggest mistake. Slowly as each day that passes by, you started acting differently like you were a new person to me and I didn't see what was coming my way. You started pushing me to such extents where I questioned myself, my love for you and most importantly I questioned m...

We often come across people who were once our close friends but now they don't even talk to us that often, nothing is same anymore like before and you start to wonder what went wrong, you start questioning yourself if you made any mistake or was it something else that triggered them to stay away from you. So many questions and it starts making you feel so low because they won't tell you, they will just stay aloof and expect you to understand. But honestly if you ask me then I can say that unless if the person does not open upto you about what is bothering them then there is no way you can find out, give them their privacy for a while. If they feel that they can trust you enough then there is chance that they will give you a little insight about their issue and expect you to give your take on that situation. There is one thing you need to do, that is never ever judge them for what they are about to do or they might be thinking to do because you never know that it might ...

We all grew up by learning from our parents that we need to be strong, to be independent enough to do something for ourselves. But as we grow  up, we develop emotions and feelings that sometimes it's difficult to handle. So we decide to suppress those emotions because we think it will interfere with our daily lives and we are too busy to even think about it. We feel that expressing the way we feel will get us into trouble or we might lose people. But let me tell you something, if something is bothering you or keeping you away from being happy again then trust me keeping your emotions inside is gonna do you no good! Say it! To whomever it relates to or write it down and give it to that person so that you can save yourself from the awkward moment. If you think that the person will not be the same anymore or will stop communicating with you then trust me that person does not value your emotions or you and does not understand you. he or she has no right to point fingers at you by an...