Express Yourself

We are all trying our best to fit into these norms laid by the society just to feel accepted in some way or the other. We are so carried away by trying to make everything work in our favor and we just forget to live for ourselves. We forget that we need some time for ourselves, to breathe, to feel, to love and more importantly to just be ourselves. We are constantly living with this fear of not being good enough to people around us, not being able to live up to their expectations. Somewhere deep down we feel that sense of emptiness due to this, we always pretend to be someone who is totally different from the real us just because we want to feel loved and accepted. There are times when we are the real us and we are really happy to be the way we are. So what changes this? Why can't we just be the one who we really are? Is pretending really necessary? Is it really worth your time? Is it going to do you any good in the long run? I'll tell you what, in the long run t...

I have been wondering about this for quite sometime that during the darkest hours of my life why I'm not able to find any support or anyone who can even try to understand my current state of mind. Maybe it's not just you, maybe its them and maybe everyone is just messed up as you are. So hoping for someone to be there by your side would make no sense if everything is just as messed up as your current state of mind is. There is nothing that we can do when we are trapped in our own thoughts, the ups and downs in our lives has molded us into a better human than we could possibly ever be. It just takes the right perspective to make the other person feel better about their own lives. The only sole purpose of our existence is to fight through the darkest days of our lives and to shine brighter than ever. The come back should always be stronger than your setback because then in that moment you are yourself with no guilt, no shame, no expectations, just the will to make it work and ...